THE TALK PART 4

I guess some of our children, the leaders of today and our hope for tomorrow are back in school. Kudos the the good job you did as parents during the holiday.

I hope you talked about SEX!!! Yes, the younger ones are to be told about their PP, like my children call it. It is a no go area. To be to touched by nobody, it is their Private Property!
But before you can succeeded in telling them everything they need to know about sex, you must earn their TRUST!

This will enable them to open up and tell you if they are been abused or molested.
Remember, almost all the abuse are perpetrated by family members or family friends.
For the older ones, the teenagers, you must be able to crack the nut for them to open up.
In their own case, it is the more you look, the less you see. Most of them know more than us.

 However, if we do our work well, by coming down to their level and making them our friends, they would learn from our Family Values, this would avert disaster.
How can we establish trust? We will talk more on that on THE TALK PART 5.